[He can tell that Adelaide is miffed by the response she gives, but rather then quiet him it actually makes him chuckle since he knows it isn't at him.]
I would prefer that you not die over the motion, thanks.
Would asking the Dalish on how they deal with it help in figuring other options? They don't have a Harrowing from my understanding and it would build better relations.
Pel's description of what she did was to be 'mindfully aware' and to 'say no to demons'- unfortunately it isn't at all applicable as she manifested at a very young age and learned to protect herself in such a way that it is instinct. I do not know what it is that Ellana does- and the idea of asking Sina anything about demons leaves me afraid she might faint. Korrin might have some useful advice but-
Getting through to Dylan was difficult enough. Now we've Madame Le Fer herself pushing their side. It takes all I have to keep Korrin from attempting to strangle either of them or he and the Dalish from walking out entirely.
We are here for the opinions of concerned mages to make their minds known. You heard something that worried you and you brought it to me. That is how this is supposed to work.
I suppose if enough mages came to us and calmly expressed their concerns or fears or distaste for Harrowings we might be able to sway them to consider something else.
... Someone suggested that I go around and ask people their opinions and then tell them to let the Council know about how they felt. I'm not... sure if that would be helpful. Well, not in the calm sense at least. If I start spreading news about such a thing people might start panicking. Was it supposed to be public knowledge?
Council meetings are public and written summaries of what is discussed and what choices have been made are available to any mage that wants to know. Spread word that if mages have any concerns of any sort, they can bring it to us and we will do what we can for them with all due consideration.
Specifying Harrowings in particular is asking for trouble. We've only just begun to settle, we do not need to whip everyone into a frenzy.
We are sorting out how to make ourselves better available and more visible to those that have need of us. Madame Le Fer has suggested a uniform. That was...an interesting hour's worth of discussion.
[ Adelaide sighs and slumps back, pinching the bridge of her nose. ]
Aside from a migraine? Well enough. How are you, Sam?
[There's a short 'hm' huffed in confirming the first question.]
It 'felt' like he needed and wanted the space so I've been making an effort to giving him that. But we're going on a mission soon... Guess I'm not sure on what to do in this case.
Chat échaudé craint l’eau froide, he has had less than positive experiences enough in the past but you have been more than supportive and understanding. Talk to him.
[He had not been expecting that and it's clear by the shuffling on his end that Sam isn't sure what to make of being told 'men' in such a tone, followed up by Adelaide's native language.]
Perhaps you should use smaller words next time. Fears like that tend to make even the simplest gesture seem complicated. You are doing well, Sam. You are trying to be mindful of what Krem wants but, Moumou, it does not hurt to reach out first. Space has been had.
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I would prefer that you not die over the motion, thanks.
Would asking the Dalish on how they deal with it help in figuring other options? They don't have a Harrowing from my understanding and it would build better relations.
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Getting through to Dylan was difficult enough. Now we've Madame Le Fer herself pushing their side. It takes all I have to keep Korrin from attempting to strangle either of them or he and the Dalish from walking out entirely.
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Sorry. I'm probably not helping at all, calling you and belly-aching about it as well.
There aren't any other Mages we have here that didn't live in a Circle that would have an idea?
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I suppose if enough mages came to us and calmly expressed their concerns or fears or distaste for Harrowings we might be able to sway them to consider something else.
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Specifying Harrowings in particular is asking for trouble. We've only just begun to settle, we do not need to whip everyone into a frenzy.
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I'll certainly spread the word about seeking the Council for concerns.
[If he couldn't specify a concern for people to speak up about it was a bit of a mute point to go around talking to everyone.]
With all things considered, how are you doing?
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[ Adelaide sighs and slumps back, pinching the bridge of her nose. ]
Aside from a migraine? Well enough. How are you, Sam?
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There's a sigh from his end, followed by a shuffling of papers as he considers the question.]
Alright, I suppose. I've been keeping busy.
...
I'm at a bit of odds at what to do about Krem. We haven't... talked since.
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[ That is. Well it is a difficult thing to wrap one's head around. ]
Is there a particular reason why not?
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It 'felt' like he needed and wanted the space so I've been making an effort to giving him that. But we're going on a mission soon... Guess I'm not sure on what to do in this case.
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[ The exasperation here is real. ]
Chat échaudé craint l’eau froide, he has had less than positive experiences enough in the past but you have been more than supportive and understanding. Talk to him.
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Just... talk, huh?
What was that at the beginning?
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[ She sighs. ]
The scalded cat fears cold water. Roughly...once bitten, twice shy.
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I thought I... had made it clear how I felt.
[Another sigh, another pause.]
I just... I'm just worried that I'm fucking this up some how.
I really like him, Adelaide.
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And he's still getting used to that nickname; Moumou.]
I will keep that in mind.
Thanks. For listening.
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[ That he has not is something of a surprise. ]
I am here for you whenever you need me.
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Thanks, again. That really means a lot. Truly.
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