One does not need a code of honor nor framework of obligations in order to be sincere, Red. [ Gently- and is it not strange how she has spared enough time to be this gentle when she quite often lacks the patience for it? ] If anything that makes the sincerity more honest- when it is said and meant freely. I- protest, I know, but that is due to being unaccustomed to hearing such things? But I know you mean them, the things you say.